Someone very dear to me blew me off to spend time with someone else. Oh well, it happens. Right? However, situations like this have happened frequently over the past few months.
My answer to the situation was to talk about it, civilly, one-on-one. The response I received??? You’ll NEVER guess…..Not in a million years……….. “When you cancel because you’re sick, I don’t get upset with you.”
Honestly, is one situation equivalent to the other?? Isn’t that like comparing apples and rabbits??
My mouth dropped open– and for a split second I wished them to burst into flames. But I recovered my composure and simply said. “Oh, whatever” and moved on. Since then I feel differently about the relationship.
Any of you have someone you love implying that you have a choice about being sick??